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It was carried out by Dr Justin Lehmiller, who has spent his career analysing sex lives and asked those taking part questions on their sexual appetite and history. And people who are introverted change themselves to be more extroverted in their fantasies. Dr Lehmiller found that interest in threesomes and group sex increased with age — and was particularly popular for men and women in their 40s and 50s.
BDSM takes you out of your head and increases mindfulness. So it is a way of coping with all of these cultural messages. This is also because curvy women would have increased the reproductive output of our ancestors. Here, we analyse the most common sexual desires from the study and speak to some of the people who have tried them. I started watching porn and there was always an exciting threesome.
MORE than a quarter surveyed hailed BDSM their favourite fantasy — 65 per cent dreaming of submissiveness and 60 per cent imagining being dominant. But it could also include sado-masochistic activities like spanking or biting. After our date I went back to his house and he introduced me to his dungeon. We had a really explorative night and I ended up being a dominatrix. I really enjoyed the power of being in control and making the man do whatever I wanted. FIFTY-nine per cent of heterosexual women fantasise about same-sex sauciness — compared to 26 per cent of men.
DOING something taboo, breaking rules by having sex outside or somewhere you should not want is a frequent fantasy. The thought of someone watching or the danger of getting caught added to the thrill.
If a partner is daring enough to try it, it is a huge bonus. And 58 per cent of men had daydreamed of watching their partners have sex with others. Dr Lehmiller says most people had fantasies about being polyamorous, swinging or inviting someone else to bed. He came back to ours and I had sex with him while Michael watched.